I am Amanda. I do not live here anymore.

 

expectolizzito:

tumbling in class
first post is dicks
dicks touching other dicks
classmate snickers
scroll quietly

#tumblr: a poem

tsarcasm:

according to USA Today, the average tumblr user spends 2.5 hours a month on tumblr

oops

nerdyvixen replied to your post: nerdyvixen replied to your post: nerdyvixen…
See, this is why we just need to run away together and have cats (Dean and Cas, or Steve and Tony, I DON’T CARE WHICH, or Cas and Tony, which would just be funny) and poop jokes and also cuddles.

we actually HAVE to do this

because “Poop Jokes and Cuddles” is already my planned title for my memoir

so if we don’t do it, it won’t make any sense

What men mean when they talk about their “crazy” ex-girlfriend is often that she was someone who cried a lot, or texted too often, or had an eating disorder, or wanted too much/too little sex, or generally felt anything beyond the realm of emotionally undemanding agreement. That does not make these women crazy. That makes those women human beings, who have flaws, and emotional weak spots. However, deciding that any behavior that he does not like must be insane– well, that does make a man a jerk.

And when men do this on a regular basis, remember that, if you are a woman, you are not the exception. You are not so cool and fabulous and levelheaded that they will totally get where you are coming from when you show emotions other than “pleasant agreement.”

When men say “most women are crazy, but not you, you’re so cool” the subtext is not, “I love you, be the mother to my children.” The subtext is “do not step out of line, here.” If you get close enough to the men who say things like this, eventually, you will do something that they do not find pleasant. They will decide you are crazy, because this is something they have already decided about women in general.